As a nearlywed, it is easy to get caught up in the details of planning The Perfect Day. Everyone reminds you of how it's your special day, that your wedding day is the best day ever. You've created a magical color palette, designed the most unique favors that your guests will forget to take, found the perfect table runners, tasted all the cake, chosen your bridesmaids, their dresses, your dress...THE DRESS. Oh, and your future spouse, that person with whom you will spend the